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Why is it so essential to get a signature on our contracts? It may seem like once all the information has been communicated, and all questions have been asked and answered, the important steps have already been completed. A signature could seem like an unnecessary formality between adults. I have had a few clients hesitate to sign our contracts…
What Does it Mean to Sign a Mentoring/Supervising Contact?
December 13, 2024Contracts are the glue that holds the mentoring/supervision relationship together. We have discussed the importance of contracts before, but today I want to get into some of the technical details. Contracts set professional mentoring/supervising apart from informal and formal mentorship…
Creating Client Contracts
December 5, 2024Sometimes, it feels like the to-do list for a mentor/supervisor is eternal… and in many ways, it is. There will always be another phone call, another appointment to book, another bill to pay, another client to qualify. This can feel overwhelming. However, following through on your commitments when you say you will shows the people you are working with that you are trustworthy and that you value them. Understanding proper task management can help you to feel confident that you have control over your business and turn that sense of anxiety into productivity…
Managing Tasks and Time
November 28, 2024Once again, I want to stress the importance of confidentiality with clients and its limits. Knowing that what is said during sessions will remain between just the two of you will create a sense of safety, allowing the client to be more honest and vulnerable. This will strengthen your relational bond and make the work much more effective…
What are the Limits of Confidentiality?
November 21, 2024When we consider the competencies required for mentors and supervisors, the first skills that come to mind are usually things like emotional intelligence or leadership experience. We often overlook the nitty-gritty elements of the job such as administrative skills. Understanding how to organize and manage our business is crucial. These are the gears which move the machine, allowing us to be the mentors and supervisors we want to be. We need these gears to be well-oiled and turning smoothly in order to focus on what really matters; our clients…
How to Tackle Record-Keeping as a Mentor or Supervisor
November 14, 2024What is a conflict of interest?This arises when the mentor/supervisor has multiple interests in a client when they are providing a role that should only focus on the professional interest as a mentor/supervisor. Examples are working with a person you are too close to; a friend, family member, or a person you have a romantic interest in. It can also occur in business relationships; mentoring your direct superior or subordinate could easily result in biased advice to promote your own interest…
Working with a Degree of Independence
November 7, 2024Anyone who watches sports knows that it is not one player that wins the game, it is the team. Yes, there are MVPs (Most Valuable Players) but the game wouldn’t be the same without a goalie… without defense… without a coach. This is a good principle to bring into mentoring and professional supervision. We are not competent in every area. We all have our strengths and our weaknesses, our own set of skills and our own experiences to draw from. Even the best mentor or supervisor has limitations…
When is it Time to Make a Referral?
October 31, 2024Legal matters and workplace insurance (liability coverage) are an essential part of our work as mentors and supervisors. Finding liability coverage and maintaining it should take up a very small percentage of our time, and once it is set in place, we shouldn’t have to focus on it very often. All that being said, today, we will briefly touch on why liability coverage is important…
A Quick Reminder About Liability Coverage
October 17, 2024Just wanted to let you know that I’m going to be presenting at the Church Mental Health Summit on October 10 along with 50+ other presenters…