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July 16, 2026

Let it Go: Releasing and Forgiving 

Two weeks ago, we examined bitterness and anger, and the cost it can have on our lives. The ability to forgive can relieve us of negative emotional weight and so benefit our well-being. Jesus gave us the master class in forgiveness, asking his Father…
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There is an old adage: “Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting someone else to die.” While the expression’s origins are unknown, the saying’s profound truth has kept it alive. Holding on to anger and refusing forgiveness not only harms others but also damages ourselves. This is why “demonstrates forgiveness” is one of our behavioural expressions.  How are you going

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In any relationship there are mistakes made on both sides. As human beings we aren’t perfect; we can let our insecurities, fears, irritations and anger get the better of us at some point or another, causing hurt to others. Inevitably, the people around us will harm us and we will harm them. Since there is no going back in time,

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